Hello,
I responded to the thread over in goodinbed.com, but the thread got deleted shortly afterwards, so I can assume you never saw it.
First of all, these forums are populated by lurkers. I read this forum for years (10?) before posting. I don't think it would be a bad thing if your BF read this thread, since you are taking such a positive attitude. Anyway, assume he is reading this.
Next, this fetish is a bit off the beaten path and I am sure all of us felt a bit like freaks until we found each other and discovered that we were more normal than we thought. However, your initial attitude when you discovered his fetish probably made him feel freakish again, hence his refusal to open up more and to lie and say he 'fixed' himself of this fetish.
You said he was into statues and wax figures, but I am certain the turn on is imagining that those figures were people who were frozen.
The real doll thing? I imagine that is for people like us who are so shy as to be unable to have a real life relationship. If we are in a real relationship, we want our mates to freeze for us.
However, if we are so shy as to never ask our GFs to freeze for us, we might look to freeze porn to satisfy our needs.
I mentioned on the other forum that this fetish may be the result of extreme shyness at a young age, so being shy about sharing this fetish is to be expected.
So, what to do? Since you first asked about this a couple of months ago and are still interested in your BF and took the time to investigate this in a positive way, you obviously want to make your BF happy and be happy yourself.
Indulge him! Since he denies he is still interested in this fetish, it may take more than to dress up sexily and freeze for him. The flash mob is a interesting idea. Is he going? Does he know about it? Being in a public place with a lot of frozen people, knowing that you know about his fetish may make him uncomfortable.
I am going to recommend being hypnotized. I can recommend both Lordhypno through years of indirect association and HypnoGold since he helped me directly.
It is relatively easy to be hypnotized to frozen. This will solve the issue of blinking since this is an important part of the freeze fetish and blinking kind of ruins the effect. Also, you can be hypnotized to be unaware while frozen. The advantage is that he won't be crippled with shame being with you frozen for the first time.
Read up on hypnosis if you have any concerns.
I am in a long term committed relationship. My GF was just like you at first, but because she loved me and wanted me to be happy she indulged me. We didn't start out with hypnosis, but I wanted to try it because she wasn't very good at freezing.
So, don't be concerned about being supplanted by an inanimate object, because that is only a substitute for freezing you. Consider asking HypnoGold for a customized recording, with triggers that you give to your BF. Surprise him!
I am certain he will be pleased and you both will have an amazing experience.
Feel free to email me with any questions/concerns at:
hypnofreeze99@gmail.com